A life lesson in problem solving

Sometimes, it’s best to admit you screwed up and take responsibility for your actions.  Over the weekend, I had an individual call me with a concern.  I indicated to them, I’d address the concern with the appropriate individual in charge of the matter, and that I’d have the appropriate individual contact him on the resolution of the problem.

The next morning, I thought about what I had done.  At that point, I realized I had solved the problem all wrong.  In fact, I hadn’t solved the problem at all.  I could have easily addressed the problem with the individual on the phone and even solved the problem.  From that point, I then could have addressed the matter with the appropriate individual.

In the end, I called up the individual that had raised the problem.  Apologized for not immediately solving his problem, and then I proceeded to solve his problem.  From there, I emailed the individual who should have addressed the problem and copied the person with the problem on my follow up.  End result, the problem was solved and the individual was held accountable for their lack of action (thus leading to the creation of the problem).

My life lesson was simple.  When presented with a problem with which you have the ability to solve, solve the problem and then address the situation with the individual tasked with the actual responsibility of solving the problem.  The external individual does not care who is responsible for solving the problem.  They just want their problem solved.  Such a simple lesson, yet so difficult to execute on a real-time basis.

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Life: A look at what defines me

This morning, I met with clients to discuss selling the majority of their personal belongings.  It was obvious they were reflecting on their life as we discussed selling a large portion of their personal belongings.  Towards the end of my appointment, we had an interesting discussion about what defines our lives.  We agreed that after their assets are sold, they still will have their friends, family, and their beliefs.  I couldn’t agree more.

In my business, I often meet with clients that are at major crossroads in their lives.  It’s interesting to note how people handle the selling of their materialistic possessions.  For some people, the day after their life possessions have been sold, their lives have not changed.  They are the same person.  For other people, they will never be same.  Their life was defined by their possessions.

In the end, those individuals that rely on their possessions to define who they are are destined for a shallow empty end to their life.  However, those that rely on their friends, family and beliefs to define who they are are destined for a fulfilled life with memories that cannot be taken from them or sold.

When I was just out of high school, I was very materialistic.  In fact, my dad commented on several occasions that I was headed for disaster as I tried to lead a lifestyle based on possessions.  Ten years later, my life has radically changed.  I am not caught up in possessions.  Although I do have several nice “toys”, if I woke up tomorrow without them, my life would go on without much noticeable change.  As I realize what defines my life, I have become increasingly comfortable with who I am and less alert to other’s impressions of me (especially when those impressions are defined by my possessions).

Although I don’t get to a lot of movies in a year, I do manage to see 10 or so each year.  I’ve got a few suggestions for movie theatres that would increase their business, and increase my attendance.

  1. Make the cherry ICEES bigger! They are by far my favorite movie snack.  The only problem is, even with the largest size, the ICEE is long gone before the movie starts.  I’ve threatened to start buying two at a time.
  2. During the previews allow me to sign up for a text message that will remind about an upcoming movie.  Almost every time I go to a movie, there are several previews that are enticing enough for me to want to see the movie.  The problem is I can never remember the name of the movie.  It would be so easy if I could just text 3456 to to some number, and then automatically receive an update about the movie being released to theatres. I guarantee I’d make it to many more movies.  If you don’t like this idea, how about just providing a kiosk with details about the previews currently showing in the theatres.  I’d pick up the literature as a way to keep track of what I liked.
  3. Allow me to purchase the DVD of the movie I just watched as I left the theatre.  I’m not a huge watch movies at home kind of guy.  Yet, I guarantee there are several movies, in fact two this week, where I would have purchased them had they been available as I left the theatre.  To make this easy, I’d have to turn in my movie ticket in exchange for the right to purchase that movie, and I’d be limited to one copy.  I would buy several movies a year.  Currently, I very rarely purchase a DVD.  In fact, when I do purchase a movie, it’s rarely a newer release.

I’m sure there are plenty of other ideas to make the movies more enjoyable.  These are just my top three.  Do you have any ideas?